Based on Jeremiah 29:11

*Let this God inspired writing...from His heart to yours, help you to accept God's
perfect will for your life, even if the answer is no.

Sometimes the "no's" in life, can make us feel that God has rejected us, while truly they are God's way of caring for us, when we can't see what may lie before us. We can feel as if times such as these are meant to hurt us, when really they are meant to protect us, from the outcome of something only God can foresee. 
When we look back on our yesterday's, we remember moments that could have taken us down to the very worst; but yet somehow a detour road was placed before us, which caused us to swerve away from a pit of destruction; that just lied a short distance ahead of us.
Forcing God to do something that just isn't in His plan for our lives; is only going to take us down a road of needless suffering. How will we ever reach our true destination in life, if we are continually headed in the wrong direction; just because we feel that this is the right direction to take? 
It's never easy to accept the "no's" in life...and there can even be moments, when this short word can deeply break our hearts and bring about moments of disappointment; but it's better to hurt for a short season; then to wear the scars of a broken heart, for years to come. 
​When we choose to trust God enough, to foresee the moments ahead of us; that we may not always see with our own eyes; then in the end, we will understand that God's response of "no;" is not meant to hurt us...but is meant to help us.
Remember one thing...a person cannot lead one's self through life; but rather, they need someone to follow...someone to show them the way and safely guide them over the obstacles in life...and that will never happen, when we choose to be the one to do that, while always expecting the answer to be "yes"...to the things we desire in life.
​When we choose to follow the Most High God; then we need to remember that He knows more about what's best for us, rather than what we feel is best for ourselves...Amen!!